"Love is better than a whip."
Esan Proverbs
Most people get married believing a myth that
marriage is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for;
companionship, intimacy, friendship etc. the truth is that marriage at the
start is an empty box. You must put
something in before you can take something out. There is no love in marriage.
Love is in people. And people put love in marriage. There is no romance in
marriage. You have to infuse it into your marriage. A couple must learn the art
and form the habit of giving, loving serving, praising, of keeping the box
full. If you take out more than you put in, the box will be empty.